Comments on: Dating Games: Ignoring http://www.uncouth.net/2008/06/15/are-you-that-weak-really/ Not on the rug, man. Thu, 20 Aug 2009 20:08:49 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Marwa http://www.uncouth.net/2008/06/15/are-you-that-weak-really/comment-page-1/#comment-279 Marwa Wed, 19 Aug 2009 14:40:28 +0000 http://www.uncouth.net/?p=400#comment-279 I really don't get it..I don't understand why ppl would ignore. I go over everything I said and I keep wondering what was it that I said or did that was wrong and got ppl to ignore me?!! I try to put myself in their place. would I just ignore others..I would blame them first, I won't just ignore anyone.. I need to know too..I would love to hear why ppl decided to ignore me instead of letting me guess and analyze.. i guess ppl do because it's just easier...if they really care a little bit, they'd tell you why and ask you to understand. I really don’t get it..I don’t understand why ppl would ignore.
I go over everything I said and I keep wondering what was it that I said or did that was wrong and got ppl to ignore me?!!
I try to put myself in their place. would I just ignore others..I would blame them first, I won’t just ignore anyone..
I need to know too..I would love to hear why ppl decided to ignore me instead of letting me guess and analyze..
i guess ppl do because it’s just easier…if they really care a little bit, they’d tell you why and ask you to understand.

]]> By: Michele http://www.uncouth.net/2008/06/15/are-you-that-weak-really/comment-page-1/#comment-183 Michele Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:04:15 +0000 http://www.uncouth.net/?p=400#comment-183 Ignoring may be weak, or it may be just plain old disrespect - they've made a decision about you but don't have enough respect to politely share their thoughts with you. I don't deal with people like this - more than not they are flaky and practice situational ethics. Ignoring may be weak, or it may be just plain old disrespect – they’ve made a decision about you but don’t have enough respect to politely share their thoughts with you. I don’t deal with people like this – more than not they are flaky and practice situational ethics.

]]> By: catBonny http://www.uncouth.net/2008/06/15/are-you-that-weak-really/comment-page-1/#comment-171 catBonny Mon, 16 Jun 2008 21:03:29 +0000 http://www.uncouth.net/?p=400#comment-171 I agree with John White- dating or no. When someone ignores you it just opens your mind up to so much wondering, and because I am a little OCD I think of all thr offensive things I could have said, and what I could have done wrong, etc. I also admit that I have ignored people in my relationships in the past. They were not dating relationships, but rather friendships in which some element seemed off to me, and therefore I thought that rather than addressing the situation (like a mature adult) I would try to ignore it and not have to deal with the pain- probably mainly because I am not brave enough to just be straight forward and honest all the time. I don't think that answers your question, but I am thinking that ignoring is generally cowardice on the part of the ignorer to not just say it like it is. Maybe they feel like if they don't have something nice to say, they shouldn't say anything I all. I agree with John White- dating or no.

When someone ignores you it just opens your mind up to so much wondering, and because I am a little OCD I think of all thr offensive things I could have said, and what I could have done wrong, etc.

I also admit that I have ignored people in my relationships in the past. They were not dating relationships, but rather friendships in which some element seemed off to me, and therefore I thought that rather than addressing the situation (like a mature adult) I would try to ignore it and not have to deal with the pain- probably mainly because I am not brave enough to just be straight forward and honest all the time.

I don’t think that answers your question, but I am thinking that ignoring is generally cowardice on the part of the ignorer to not just say it like it is. Maybe they feel like if they don’t have something nice to say, they shouldn’t say anything I all.

]]> By: John White http://www.uncouth.net/2008/06/15/are-you-that-weak-really/comment-page-1/#comment-170 John White Mon, 16 Jun 2008 12:00:45 +0000 http://www.uncouth.net/?p=400#comment-170 Oh, this is SO a pet peeve of mine, dating or no. <a href="http://john-with-an-h.blogspot.com/2008/04/awkward-part-5.html" rel="nofollow">This is how awkwardly horrible it is for me.</a> Oh, this is SO a pet peeve of mine, dating or no.

This is how awkwardly horrible it is for me.

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